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Unsettling Truth

  • Nakia Holliday
  • Jan 20
  • 2 min read

Hello MoodRoc Woman, 


This week, we want to talk about something deeper than trends. 

You may have seen the recent conversation surrounding Teyana Taylor’s sheer dress at a movie premiere. The reactions online were swift and familiar. Words like “classy,” “elegant,” and “appropriate” were used less as descriptors and more as judgments. 

Person in elegant black outfit on red carpet against dark backdrop with logos "TIME 100 NEXT" and "General Catalyst." Confident expression.

But here’s the truth we keep returning to at MoodRoc: When fashion makes people uncomfortable, it’s rarely just about the clothes. 

Fashion-like art is meant to evoke. To inspire, provoke, unsettle, and sometimes expose what we haven’t yet made peace with inside ourselves. 

Historically, nudity has been celebrated in art as a symbol of truth, vulnerability, and power. Yet when that same honesty appears in modern fashion, especially on a woman who is confident and unapologetic, it is often met with shame disguised as critique. 


When someone says a look lacks “class,” what they may actually be expressing is discomfort: • Discomfort with their own body 

• Discomfort with freedom they don’t feel entitled to 

• Discomfort with a woman who refuses to shrink 


This is where projection enters the conversation. 

Many of us were taught directly or indirectly to police our bodies, our confidence, and our expression. When we see someone who has unlearned those rules, it can trigger judgment as a way to avoid facing our own unresolved self-criticism. It’s not confidence. It’s a quieter form of self-loathing placed outward instead of inward. 

At MoodRoc, we believe self-expression is a wellness practice. 

To inhabit your body fully. To dress in alignment with your truth. To take up space without apology. 



That isn’t attention-seeking. It’s self-trust. 

And self-trust is radical in a culture that profits from women doubting themselves. 

So, this week, we invite you to pause and reflect: When something you see unsettles you, ask why. When something inspires you, honor it. And when something challenges your beliefs, consider what it’s revealing not about them, but about you. 

Fashion doesn’t owe the world comfort. Neither do you. 

With strength and softness, MoodRoc 

P.S. We’ll be continuing this conversation on Instagram. Join us and share your thoughts using #MoodrocWoman

 

 
 
 

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